Everyone loves a good party! But maybe not all parties. Let's go to a pity party.
Pity Party 自我怜悯(因感到不幸或未受到公平对待)
Dan: You would not believe my morning. First, I was late to the gym.
Anna: You belong to a gym? Wow, you are so lucky!
Dan: And then I forgot my coffee.
Anna: I'll buy you a coffee.
Dan: And then...
Anna: Dan! Let's take a walk. Walking will bring you out of this pity party that you're in.
A pity party is when a person feels sorry for themselves. That's the pity part. Maybe they feel unlucky or that they have been treated unfairly. And then they talk about it a lot. That's the party part. Except it's not a party. It's a downer.