You can do everything right and still get f**ked. You can’t control that.

“你可以把一切都做得很好，但还是会被搞砸。这是你无法控制的。”

—definitive-airwave,Nenad Stojkovic

Don’t assume people will treat you with the same kindness you treated them with.

“不要以为别人会像你对待他们一样善待你。”

—motherofsmallones,Brian Evans

You can be every thing they want- and they will want something else.

“你可以成为他们想要的一切样子，但他们还是会想要别的东西。”

—grianmharduit,My United States of Whatever

You can do everything right in college and have honors, connections, and experience, and still not find a career when you graduate

“你可以在大学里把一切都做得很好，拥有荣誉、人脉和经验，但毕业时仍然找不到工作”

—everythinglatte,Jacob Roeland

Not everyone who comes into your life is meant to stay. Regardless of how much it hurts, sometimes you just have to let people go.

“不是每个走进你生活的人都注定要留下。无论有多痛苦，有时你不得不让别人离开。”

—Imperfect-Magic,Quinn DombrowskiReport

That there is often little to no correlation between effort and outcome. I've been successful at some things with little effort and a lot of luck. I've poured my entire soul into other things and still utterly failed.

“努力和结果之间几乎没有任何关联性。我曾在某些事情上取得成功，但付出的努力很少，运气也很好。而在另一些事情上，我倾注了全部的心血，却还是彻底失败了。

—ultimate_ampersand,pennino

I overthink too much. Don't overthink everything or you will make yourself miserable.

“我想得太多了。不要凡事都想得太多，否则你会让自己痛苦不堪。”

—Ian Sane,Ian Sane

Financial freedom is the only freedom

“财务自由才是唯一的自由”

—The-Clumsy-Pirate,David Baron

Very few people care about you. Like at all. Even most of your acquaintances and relatives; often even so-called friends.Exceptions exist for a select small group of "special" people.

很少有人真心关心你。就像根本没有。甚至是你的大多数熟人和亲戚，或者是所谓的朋友。只有少数“特殊”人群才有例外。

—VeronicaMarsupial,Ricardo Moraleida