有人与你意见相左时，即使这些意见来自你的丈夫或孩子，也应该用争论去说服他们，而不是用权威去征服，因为靠权威取得的胜利 是虚幻而自欺欺人的；

When you meet with opposition, even if it is from your family, endeavour to overcome it with argument and not by authority, for a victory dependent upon authority is unreal and illusory.