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爱对方多一点,还是爱自己多一点?

发布者: dongluonan | 发布时间: 2009-4-9 17:06| 查看数: 1392| 评论数: 1|

爱对方多一点,还是爱自己多一点?

Give more love or get more love from others?






有人说,爱是无私的,应该爱对方多一点;可是又有人说,自己都不爱,如何爱别人?每个人的爱情理念不同,因而会产生不同的爱情誓言。无论如何,你爱自己多一点,还是爱对方多一点呢?



观点A:选择爱自己多一点

懂得爱自己才会有资格去爱别人。多爱对方一点,到最后自己受伤也就多一点。但感情是不能控制的,在不知不觉中爱对方比爱自己更多。



观点B:对方幸福,自己才会幸福

我觉得还是爱对方多一点好!只有爱对方,让对方幸福快乐,自己才能幸福快乐,为此付出再多也是值得的!



观点C:爱情需要把握好一个

我觉得无论爱别人多一点还是爱自己多一点,最重要的是把握好一个,爱情面前既不能爱得失去理智也不能丧失自己,只有两个人在爱自己的同时不忽略爱别人才是最平衡的相处方式。





Some people said, love is selfless, we should give more love to others. While other people said, how can we love others if we don’t love ourselves? Our love philosophy is different from each other, which raises different oaths about love. In any case, which would you choose, give more love or get more love from others

There are three different opinions below:

A : Love more ourselves. Only the person who knows how to love himself is qualified to love others. It is true that people who give more love always get hurt more seriously. But love is beyond our control, unconsciously, people often give more love to others than what they get.



B: The way to being happy is to make others happy first.

I prefer to give more love. The way to being happy is to love others and to make them happy first. Love is worth everything to pay.

C: People need to hold the degree of love.

I think no matter whether we give more love or get more love from others, the most important thing is to hold the degree of love. In front of love, we can’t get lost or be unreasoning. Only two people who do not neglect each other when they love themselves, can they have the most balanced way of love.



最新评论

悠然 发表于 2009-4-9 17:36:08
C:爱情需要把握好一个“度”
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