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We try and have a date night once a week. And we'll sit down, we'll put some music on. We can have English music, Turkish music. There's a bit of dancing. Even at bedtime we'll Skype and we'll go to sleep with the phones next to the pillow on Skype. The intimacy is really difficult. Sometimes I just want a cuddle. There's nothing in the world to explain this. Being apart is so, so hard. I really can't wait to call. I can't wait to see Danielle's face, and all the kids, and hear their voice. Well go on, tell me what you did at school today? I did maths.

I've lost a lot of family members and a lot of friends through choosing to go down the route of being with Gorkem. People will say to me, you know: 'I don't know why you're getting upset you've chosen to be with a foreigner.' I can't help who I've fallen in love with. Papa's made it. Did Papa make the paratha in Bangalore? We had our daughter two years ago. And we've been very happily living in India with us both working in India. We'd always thought about moving back to the UK at some point. The impetus came now because my maternal grandmother who I'm very close to and had a really important role in my upbringing stopped being able to fly for medical reasons. Essentially, what's happened is that my daughter has been deprived of both of her parents. My work is over two hours from my home.

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我们尝试每周可以有一个晚上在线约会。我们会坐下来，放一些音乐。放英国的音乐和土耳其的音乐。还会跳一点舞。甚至在睡觉前，我们还会用Skype视频，睡觉的时候都会把手机放在枕头边，开着Skype。想要亲密真的太困难了。有的时候我只想要一个温存的怀抱。世界上没有任何事情可以解释这种情况。分隔两地实在是太太艰难了。我等不及想给她打电话。我等不及想看到丹妮尔的脸，看到所有孩子们，听到他们的声音。好吧，继续，告诉我你们今天在学校都干什么了？我上数学课了。在选择和戈科姆往下走的这条路上，我的很多家人、很多朋友都不再和我联系了。别人和我说：“我不明白你为什么不高兴，是你自己选择和一个外国人在一起的。”我不能控制自己会爱上谁。这是爸爸做的。爸爸在班加罗尔也做抛饼吗？两年前我们有了女儿。我们在印度很幸福地在一起生活，我们都在印度工作。但是我们一直想有一天能搬回英国。现在这种冲动来了是因为我的外祖母出于一些医疗上的原因，不能再飞来印度看我们了，我和她的关系很亲近，在抚养我长大的过程中，她发挥了很重要的作用。所以从本质上来说，我的女儿被剥夺了和她父母在一起的权利。我从家到办公室需要两个多小时。