If you love someone,we should love him just the way he is, accept his strengths as well as his weaknesses.Try not to make them in the 'ideal' image in your eyes,but love him 'as is'

如果你爱一个人,就要爱他原来的样子;爱他的优点,也爱他的缺点,绝不能因为爱他,希望他变成自己所希望的样子