love is not the only thing we expect.
I'm alone,but i'm not lonely.
I do what I do best.
I'm not good at love someone.
but I still can live well without love.
of course ,i love my family,
i love friends.
but girlfriend is not i expect.
I do not have time to do such thing.
because of  my family.
just some bullshit.

<STRONG><FONT face=Verdana color=#61b713 size=2>mikechenlulu</FONT></STRONG>
<STRONG><FONT face=Verdana color=#61b713 size=2>It's great.The family is basiced on love,But this love is deeply.I love my family too.In  fact,I feel happy everyday.When I feel alone,I call my friends go out or chat with the netfriends online.But I never think I would alone for ever.Everyone must find they another right one.Love in lover is different from the other styles love.Maybe I make a mistake in my article,but I hope you can follow me well.That's all,thank you for read it.See you.</FONT></STRONG>

[此贴子已经被作者于2006-2-26 16:33:35编辑过]

I dont'know,but I think it's ok to be alone.Actually,I'm afraid of family.I mean wife and son/daughter.There are too much responsibilities in family,I can't offer.Perhaps, for me it's better to be alone.However,I also think marriage is not necessary.My parents told me that people should get married to complete their lives.I don't think so.That's just traditional thoughts,people don't have to do it.

<FONT size=4>I had the same feeling before.But after several years,I worked for a long time,I feel my friends happy in her family.So I know we must get marriage.Don't afraid of that,It's better than your mind's.</FONT>

Thank you.I thought you're a student.It seems I was wrong.
I'm still a student studying in a college,but I'm not as young as students.From your message,I felt that your English was affected by Chinese grammar and culture too much.My experience in studying English is reading.Read as much as you can.Of course,I do not mean that my english is better.I just want to share my experience.
In fact,writing is my nightmare.I failed my exam because my writing is weak.
I have a question about love.How many times can people love in their lives?I mean the true love.I have loved a girl for many years.Now we 're not boyfriend and girlfriend.I do not know whether I still love her or not. It is hard to start a new trip,Because I feel that I can not love anyone else as much as I love her.Do I still love her?

Some sort of love withered, but always remain fresh in our mind. We look back from time to time, trying to smell the fragence that might preserve in our memory. That's why the more we try to forget something, the deeper it is engraved in our heart. Anyway, I don't think it's a bad thing to look back, but it's much better to focous on present and future, good luck, boy!
Sincerely yours,
Joan

I see,but I always fail to do like what you mentioned.My mama worried about me,because of this.She wants me to make a new girlfriend.She told me now is time to think about marriage,I'm not as young as before.I don't know how to do.Indeed,there is a girl around me,but I'm always thinking that the only reason I want her to be my girlfriend is just for sex,not love.I don't like this feeling.
By the way,your English is [em17]

love .,love..i've read many anticles about it in this section.still, i observed nothing