身边无数“经验人士”告诉我们，爱情走了两年，死期就到了，甚至专家用数据告诉我们，爱情的保鲜期是十八个月。虽然心里很无奈甜蜜的爱情就这么结束，但这确实是生活中很多夫妻的写照，他们纯粹是为了生活而在一起，得最多的就是工作，孩子。纪念日，情人节似乎跟他们无关。爱情被生活磨灭，这是自然规律，也可以说是没有经营好的自然规律。如果你路过花店，哪怕不过节也买束花给爱人，偶尔等孩子睡了不刷手机，一起牵手散散步…如果不想让你们的爱情被柴火味淹没，那就好好经营。

That must be the story of innumerable couples， and the pattern of life it offers has a homely grace.It reminds you of a placid rivulet，meandering smoothly through green pastures and shaded by pleasant trees， till at last it falls into the vast sea; but the sea is so calm， so silent， so indifferent， that you are troubled suddenlyby a vague uneasiness. Perhaps it is only by a kink in my nature， strong in me even in those days， that i felt in such an existence， the share of the great majority， something amiss. I recognized its social value。 I saw its ordered happiness， but a fever in my blood asked for a wilder course.There seemed to me something alarming in such easy delights. In my heart was desire to live more dangerously.I was not unprepared for jagged rocks and treacherous shoals if I could only have change and the excitement of unforeseen.

这一定是世间无数对夫妻的生活写照，这种生活模式给人一种天伦之美。它使人想起一条平静的溪流，蜿蜒畅游过绿茵的草场，浓荫遮蔽，最后注入烟波浩渺的汪洋大海；但是大海太过平静，太过沉默，太过不动声色，你会突然感到莫名的不安。也许这只是我自己的一种怪诞想法，在那样的时代，这想法对我影响很深：我觉得这像大多数人一样的生活，似乎欠缺了一点儿什么。我承认这种生活有社会价值，我也看到了它那井然有序的幸福，但我血液里的冲动却渴望一种更桀骜不驯的旅程．这样的安逸中好像有一种叫我惊惧不安的东西．我的心渴望一种更加惊险的生活。只要生活中还能有变迁———以及不可知的刺激，我愿意踏上怪石嶙峋的山崖，奔赴暗礁满布的海滩。