人往往总是在得到中失去，失去中得到。女人改变了男人，男人改变了世界，往往这种是真理。失去后才懂得珍惜，不懂得珍惜不配拥有,，失去后才让人得到更多，得到后让人知道怎么珍惜。得到与失去到底谁得到更多明白更多?



People often gain from losing, and lose from gain. Women changed men, men changed the world, these maybe truth. We seem to understand cherish after losing, the people who don’t understand cherish isn’t eligible for owning it, losing make people gain more then know how to cherish. Gain and losing, which one gains more and understand better?

如果要得到一样东西，那么就注定要失去另一样东西吗？人生变幻无常，有得到就会有失去，当你得到的时候你要知道珍惜，当你失去的时候你要学会释然。大部分人都是有贪念的，如果要得到更多,那么你是否愿意失去？



If we get one thing, is it a must to lose another thing? Life is full of fickleness, there is gain, there must be losing, you should know to cherish when you are gaining, learn to be relieved when you are losing, most people are greedy, if you want to gain more, would you like to lose?

WhenI was young,teacher told me that"If you want to gain something,you should lose else instead.That's like 'you cannot eat your cake and have it."

So,if I want to gain more,I would like to lose something else.But which is important,that's need me to think about.For example love and career.I'm a freshman in the society,and I want to do my best in my career,then i havent so much time falling in love,I would like lose it.But when I mature,maybe my center of gravity will tend to my family.

"You win some,you lose some.""Something's lost but something's gained" keep a ordinary mind,you'll gain a wonderful life.```[1_29]

The concept concerning Loss and gain is quite relative.And If we put them in positive fields，they r must followed with each other.What does “Gain or Loss” mean？No doubt ，the concept undoubtlytraces the way of losingfrom gain and gain from losing~~God is just，as what we told that ”When God shuts one of ur doors ，at the same time ，he must open one another window for u.“..

With rapidly social developments ，People become more and more dissatisfied with everrything they have already possessed ~~ As an adult，I understand deeply if I want something ，i must lose more，nomatter they r good or not~~that is it！But how to choose somethingdepends on my own willing，and I am quite aware of which one should be pursued ，and others should be dismissed~~

it's a profound truth

You are lossing somthing while you are gaining. It's just according to natural laws.in spite of that, we can choose somethings which you want and give up somethings which you don't want,sometimes.

If you want to gain something, you must lose something. Thus it can keep balance. If one always gain something and never lose anything, that means he is the relative of the God.