某人是否对你有意?身体语言来辨别

Here is a short guide on how to tell if he is attracted to you. Judi James, body language expert and author of 'Sex Signals',shows you how to decode these signals and get ahead in the dating game. Find out if he is attracted to you with our great tips!

这段视频指引你怎样辨别他是否被你吸引。身体语言专家和“性信号”作者Judi James向你展示怎样辨别这些信号，在约会游戏中占据先机。根据我们的建议，辨别他是否被你吸引！

Step 1: The first glance

1.一瞥之间

When your eyes meet, he should hold your eyes longer than the normal social space. He might look away, but then he'll look back quite quickly which shows that he is definitely interested.

当你们的眼神相遇的时候，他的眼神逗留的时间比正常的社交场合要长。他的眼神会看向其他地方，但是很快又看着你，这毫无疑问表明他对你感兴趣。

Step 2: The suppressed smile

2.刻意压抑的微笑

When he sees someone he fancies, he can't help but smile, it's part of the attraction process. He will try and suppress that smile, which usually means he finds you very interesting.

当他看到自己喜欢的人的时候，他会忍不住微笑，这是证明你的吸引力的一个征兆。他会努力抑制自己的笑容，这表明他觉得你非常有趣。

Step 3: Ownership gestures

3.占有的姿势

If he wants your time and attention, he will want to single you out and separate you from the rest of the room. So expect to see things like him standing in front of you so other people can't see you, or him resting an arm over the back of your chair.

如果他想和你在一起，想吸引你的注意，他会把你和房间内其他人隔离开。所以，看一下他是不是站在你面前，让其他人看不到你，或者他的一个手臂是不是放在你的椅背上。

Step 4: Animal signals

4.动物一般的信号

An alpha male will puff his chest out to look stronger when trying to impress a mate, therefore he might realign his posture slightly and widen his shoulders a bit when talking to you, showing he can take care of you if necessary.

有男子气概的人试图给配偶留下深刻印象的时候会挺起胸膛，让自己看上去更加强壮。所以他跟你说话的时候会稍微调整自己的姿势，让自己的肩膀变得更宽，向你展示需要的时候他可以保护你。

Step 5: Look at his eyes

5.看他的双眼

He should look you straight in the eye when you are talking, showing his active listening signals. But his eyes will move down to your mouth and back up again, and this means he is probably thinking about kissing you.

当你说话的时候他会看着你的双眼，展示积极的倾听信号。但是他的双眼会看向你的嘴巴，然后再回到你的双眼，这表明他可能想要亲吻你。

Thanks for watching video How Can I Tell If He Is Attracted To Me?

感谢收看“怎样辨别他是否被我吸引”视频节目。