| 我觉得3岁以内最好，因为两个人生活在一起，需要的是快乐与幸福。而这是建立在有共同语言的基础上的。年龄相差太大的话会有代沟。 |
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好象年龄早就已经不在是人们谈论的问题了！我身边也有很多老少配，其实走在街上，也可以发现老少配的不少！ 我朋友就比我大两岁！ |
| 我会选择年龄和我相近的...不要有太大差距的 |
| 偶老公比我大5岁~~可爱的距离! |
| 我学得大个5岁以内还是可以的,我是这么想的 |
| You folks are all so conservative!My older cousin is 50 and he is marrying a Shanghanese fresh graduate who is only 22, that's almost 30 years difference but who cares as long as both of them are happy?In fact, nobody would say he is not good enough for her, he is American-Chinese, MBA degree, already reached the pinnacle of his corporate career decades ago and left the corporate world, started and cash out on a dot com and now running his second business successfully.There is no doubt that some would say that he is old enough to be her father but he is still quite a charming, sophisicated and matured man who could still easily hook a girl in the pub, so the wife definitely did not fall for just his money - you only think that when the guy has got nothing but money and the girl has got youth and looks.Anyway, you folks should learn from GTO (Great Teacher Onizuka).... haha.. :-p |
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Larry,then how's ur choice? in my eyes,if my other half is just so kind to me,he can take good care of me and the home,I don't care. but I can't accept the generation gap,we must have sth in common and have word in daily life... |
| 我觉得比自己大一点是可以的.毕竟成熟一点的男人有责任感.但大太多肯定会有代沟.所以我能接受的年龄差剧是五岁以内 |
原帖由 shunitang 于 2008-11-24 09:08 发表 I would say about 10 years difference is not a big deal for any couple to overcome.Anything above that would require: a) the older party (usually the guy in most cases) to have superior personal attributes such as highly educated, wealthy, intelligent and respected professional, etc.These attributes would help to "quieten" the objecting voice. b) the female party would have to be more matured in her character and must also command an equivalent level of intelligence.This will ensure that the couple has comman topics and also when the guy bring the girl out she wouldn't let him "lose face", of course she needs to feel at ease with his matured circle of friends too. However, notice I say usually the guy is older it's possible but honestly don't think it will work the other way around - i.e. the lady is older than the guy. I think in the reverse case I would only estimate that anything less than 3 years MAY work.:-p |
| I just wanna catch a bf much younger than me. better the age difference is more than 10. |
原帖由 ch- 于 2008-11-24 11:21 发表 Wow, I'm already imagining you putting a pet collar on this bf and... oops.. getting too graphic here.Well, according to GTO I can get a 18 years old gf then.haha.Anyone to introduce?lol... |
| 我觉得１０岁以内都没问题 |
原帖由 larry5169 于 2008-11-24 14:47 发表 ok, sugar daddy. |
原帖由 ch- 于 2008-11-25 15:32 发表 Wow, you are up for "adoption"?Unfortunately, I'm not rich enough to be sugar daddy, hehehe.;-) |
| 我选择第二个答案，5－10岁，但感情来了就来了，有时是没得选择的呀，就像爱上了就是爱上了呀，再撤退来得及吗？呵呵！ |
| 只有四个应选，还需要进行多选吗？ |
原帖由 larry5169 于 2008-11-25 15:58 发表 no sweat, I can BUY you. |
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