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【双语】研究发现:婚龄越长,夫妻感情越好

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发表于 2018-12-7 14:04:54 | 显示全部楼层 |阅读模式
导读:一项新的研究发现,结了婚的人随着年龄的增长,与伴侣之间的分歧会减少。感情成熟的夫妻如果能熬过婚姻的前10年,就可以回首往事,小争执一笑了之。



For couples who find themselves constantly bickering with each other: Have hope. A new study found that people in marriages tend to have less disagreements with their partners as they age.

对于经常吵架的夫妻来说:要抱有希望。一项新的研究发现,结了婚的人随着年龄的增长,与伴侣之间的分歧会减少。

Researchers from the University of California, Berkeley, videotaped conversations of 87 baby boomer couples who have been married for more than 15 years. The husbands and wives’ interactions were analyzed over the course of 13 years. The study found that with age, couples displayed higher levels of positive behaviors like humor and affection and a drop in negative behaviors like criticism and defensiveness.

加州大学伯克利分校的研究人员对87对结婚超过15年的婴儿潮一代夫妇的谈话进行了录像。研究人员对这些夫妻间的互动进行了长达13年的分析。研究发现,随着年龄的增长,夫妻双方表现出更多的积极行为,如幽默和爱慕,而消极行为,如批评和抵触,则有所下降。

“Our findings shed light on one of the great paradoxes of late life,” Robert Levenson, a Berkeley psychology professor and co-author of the study, wrote in a press release. “Despite experiencing the loss of friends and family, older people in stable marriages are relatively happy and experience low rates of depression and anxiety. Marriage has been good for their mental health.”

伯克利大学心理学教授、该研究的合著者罗伯特.利文森在一份新闻稿中写道:“我们的发现揭示了晚年生活中的一个重大悖论。尽管失去了朋友和家人,但婚姻稳定的老年人相对快乐,患抑郁症和焦虑症的几率较低。婚姻对他们的心理健康有好处。”

The study also found that over time, wives displayed higher levels of domineering behavior and less affection.

研究还发现,随着时间的推移,妻子们表现出的专横行为越来越多,而对丈夫的爱慕却越来越少。

“Young women identify with more feminine energy,” Bianca Rodriguez, a Los Angeles-based family and relationships therapist, told The Post. “But as we get older, we become more masculine after the age of 50 because our [estrogen levels] change.”

洛杉矶家庭关系治疗师比安卡.罗德里格斯告诉《华盛顿邮报》:“年轻女性更顺从。但随着年龄的增长,我们在50岁之后变得更有男子气概,因为我们的(雌激素水平)发生了变化。”

Rodriguez also adds that emotionally mature couples who make it through the first 10 years of marriage can look back and laugh at their petty arguments.

罗德里格斯还补充说,感情成熟的夫妻如果能熬过婚姻的前10年,就可以回首往事,对他们的小争执一笑了之。

“Couples who’ve been together for 20, or 30 years have been able to withstand all the stress and navigating the hardships of their relationships,” Rodriguez said. “Couples who have this solid foundation learn what’s really important and not sweat the small stuff so much.”

罗德里格斯说:“那些在一起20年或30年的夫妻能够承受所有的压力,并顺利度过婚姻中的艰难时刻。有这个坚实基础,夫妻会学到什么才是真正重要的,而不会为小事操心过多。”


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