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别让深爱变成一种伤痛

热度 8已有 1503 次阅读2010-10-23 19:09

Do not turn that deep love into a pain

Translation by: Denver

我不得是从哪里看到了这句话:如果你不爱一个人,请放手,好让别人有机会爱她。如果你爱的人放弃了你,请放开自己,好让自己有机会爱别人。这话直白但很有道理,也从一个侧面教会了人们如何对待情感。

I do not recall where I read this sentence: If you no longer love someone, just let it go, so you give someone else a chance to love her. If the one you love left you, please set yourself free so you can have the opportunity to love someone else. This seems to make sense and it also tells us how to handle emotional crisis in a sense.

有的东西你再喜欢也不会属於你的,有的东西你再留恋也注定要放弃的,爱是人生中一首永远也唱不完的歌。人一生中也许会经历许多种爱,但千万别让爱成为一种伤害。

There are things that do not belong to you however you love them. There are things youre sure to give up however you want to keep them. Love is a never-ending song in our life. You might experience different kinds of love in your life, but keep in mind, never let love hurt you.

生活中到处都存在着缘分,缘聚缘散好像都是命中注定的事情;有些缘分一开始就注定要失去,有些缘分是永远都不会有好结果;可是我却偏偏渴望创造一种奇迹。爱一个人不一定要拥有,但拥有一个人就一定要好好的去爱他。话说着容易,可一旦做时就真的很难,不信你试试。

You can say there is karma everywhere. And it appears to be destined to be or not to be with someone. Some karmars are sure to get lost while others may not bring you good results. However, I long to find a miracle. Loving someone may not translate into owning him, but if you own someone, you will have to love him with all you have. Its easier said than done, but when it comes to you, its not that easy. Give it a try and youll find out.

如果真诚是一种伤害,请选择谎言;如果谎言是一种伤害,请选则沉默;如果沉默是一种伤害,请选择离开。如果爱是一种伤害,请不要靠近。可是好多的情况下并不是如此,因为不由得你选择。

If honesty hurts, please choose to lie; if lies hurt, please choose silence; if silence hurts, please choose to stay away. If love hurts, please do not come near. But in most cases, things are not so, because its beyond your choices.

如果失去是苦,你怕不怕付出?如果痴迷是苦,你会不会选择结束?如果追求是苦,你会不会选择执迷不悟?如果分离是苦,你要向谁倾诉?好多事情都是后来才看清楚,好多事情当时一点也不觉得苦,然而我已经找不到来时的路。

If losing is painful, are you afraid of giving? If being fascinated is suffering, will you choose to end it? If pursuing means suffering, will you still stick to it? If separation is suffering, who do you spill it out to? Most of the time things are not clear until all the smoke clears (或者all the dust settles). Most of the times you do not feel its a suffering at all at the time. Anyway, it’s hard to return to the previous state of mind.

有一种爱,明明是深爱,却表达不完美。有一种爱,明知道要放弃,却不甘心就此离开。有一种爱,明知是煎熬,却又躱不掉。有一种爱,明知无前路,心却早已收不回来。

Theres a kind of love, apparently deep love, but it just does not appear in its perfect form. Theres a kind of love, youre sure to give up, but you just do not want to give it up easily. Theres a kind of love, youre sure its painful, but you just cannot stay away from it. Theres a kind of love, youre sure it cannot move on, but you just cannot rein your heart.

爱情不是游戏,因为我们玩不起它。爱是真心付出,要忘记真地做不到。不管归处将是哪里,我想都该在心底留有一份纯真的美好。从来没有轻易对别人动心,突然发现自己深深地爱上了你,那种滋味真是难以用言语表达,是喜悦?是悲哀?你叫我忘记,难道爱说收就可以收得回吗?可以的话也不叫爱了。

Love is not a game, because we cannot afford to play such a game. Love is giving. No one can erase that from their memory. Wherever it leads to, I think it will always leave some pure goodness deep in the heart. I was never moved by anyone, but I suddenly found myself deeply in love with you. And that feeling is inexplicable. Is it happiness? Sadness? You asked me to forget about it, do you really think it can be taken back? If it could, its not called love any more.

也许我没有足够的勇气面对现实的残酷,那么什么是勇气?是哭着要你爱我?还是哭着让你离开?估计此时没有一个正确的答案。

Maybe I do not have enough courage to face the reality. What kind of courage does that take? Crying for you to love me? Or crying to let you walk away? Theres no definite answer right now, I assume.

男人的自信来自一个女人对他的崇拜,女人的高傲来自一个男人对她的倾慕。那么为什么我们总是不懂得珍惜眼前人?在未可预知的重逢里,我们以为总会重逢,总会有缘再会,总以为有机会说一声对不起,却从没想过每一次挥手道别,都可能是诀离。

A mans confidence comes from a womans admiration of him. A womans arrogance comes from a mans adoring her. Then why is it that we never seem to treasure the one we have? In that unpredictable reunion, we always assume that it will happen, were certain that we will meet again. We always think that we will have the chance to say Im sorry, but it never crosses our mind that each wave of goodbye might be just the final farewell.

我常常有如此的感慨,也许爱情只是因为寂寞,需要找一个人来爱,即使没有任何结局。可是爱为什么也如此的脆弱?有时它易碎的程度比玻璃花瓶还容易。它又如此的坚强,坚强到即便已把自己弄的遍体鳞伤,依然痴心的爱着,从不后悔。

I often lament that maybe love comes from loneliness, when we need someone to love, even though we know theres no ending in sight. But why is love so fragile? Sometimes it seems its more fragile than glass flowers. Yet its so tough, enough to make you black and blue when its over, but youre still in it with like a fool and you never regret what you did.

爱可以是一瞬间的事情,也可以是一辈子的事情。每个人都可以在不同的时间爱上不同的人,为什么我的爱就这么一次呢?我也知道不是谁离开了谁就无法生活,可是要真正的遗忘却是一件万难的事情,也许正因如此我才不够坚强。

Love can happen in an instant, or it can last a life time. Each person can fall in love with different people at different times, then why do I have only one chance for love? I know its not that we cannot live without that certain someone, but we also know how hard it is to erase that memory completely. That might be the reason why Im not strong enough.

现在的一切,看似不经意,却是我苦心经营的结果,此刻我特别希望来一场风雨,因为那样我身在其中,即使泪流满面也不会被人发现。

All that I have, careless it might seem, but its the result of my efforts. I would like to stand in a storm right now, because only in the rain can I avoid others noticing tears falling down my face.

世事难料,其实凡事都是在它适当的时候降临,只是我们没有适当的心情去迎接它或是没在意。正如有人说:无论是谁只要在错的时间里做了对的事,其结果是可想而知的,其代价是显而意见的。

Things are always unpredictable. Everything happens for a reason, its only that we do not have the appropriate mood to meet that or we simply never notice it. As someone pointed out, whenever someone does something right at the wrong time, the result is imaginable, and its cost is obvious.

因为爱所以离开,因为爱所以放弃。听起来这话很伟大,很洒脱,可是有谁为了爱真正的能够离开呢?也许你能,我却不能轻易做到放弃。尽管有些感情如此直接和残酷,容不下任何迂回曲折的温暖……

You leave because of love. You give him up also because of love. That sounds great and big-hearted, but who can truly walk away from true love? Maybe you can? I know I cannot do this easily. Although sometimes feelings are direct and cruel, they will not tolerate any warmth with twists and turns

晚风轻轻地吹过,心田慢慢在放松,可我对你的牵挂却依然无法放下。一个人不寂寞,想一个人才寂寞。心情随着风儿在空中轻轻的飘荡,不再去想那么多的事情,于是,只好放纵自己的大脑,任夜风带着我的思绪随处飘荡。

Evening breeze rose, and my mind started to relax. Yet I still cannot let my mind wander away from worrying about you. When someone is alone, he does not feel lonely. Hes lonely only because hes missing someone. I feel my mood flying in the air like the breeze. Ill stop thinking so much. So I just let my mind wander away, taking my feelings with it.

感受着你的离去,心里有一种刺痛,霎时间内心变得空荡荡的,感觉人生真的了无意义。其实,自己也很明白你的想法,你的处境,只是太牵挂一个人的时候,爱也会成为一种负担。

Feeling your departure is painful in my heart. Suddenly I feel so empty inside. I feel life is meaningless. In fact, I understand your thoughts, your situation. Its only because when youre worried about someone, love will become a burden.

如果你真的爱了,那么不要轻言放弃,即便他让你伤心了,试着去牵挂他,倾听他,让他明白你依然关爱他;如果你真的爱了,那么不要轻言放弃,即便他让你失望了,试着去包容他,让他知道你依然在乎他。爱情真的是个很奇妙的东西,具有无穷的魔力,让人为之着迷。我坚信,爱一个人,就会爱他的所有,不会因为一些世俗的东西而改变。虽然明白,喜欢一个人并为他付出一切,也许这付出没有收获,许多故事也都是没有结局的,但是,我依然甘心付出我的努力,尽量不让他受到伤害。

If you have truly loved, please do not say give up so easily. Even if he has hurt you, you can still try to worry about him, to listen to him. You can make him realize that you care about him. If you have truly loved, please do not say give up so easily. Even if he has let you down, you can still try to pardon him. You can make him realize how much you still care about him. Love is really weird. It has endless magic. It fascinates us. I believe, when you love someone, youll love all he has. Your love will not change because of some earthly petty matters. Sometimes its pretty clear that you like someone and you give him all you have. And that may not bring any return at all. We know that many stories are without an ending, but I still give it my all willingly and I try not to hurt him.

有人说过:人生难得放纵自己一次,那么就让我放纵一下自己的感情吧,不必在意结果,当真心爱过之后,就会淡然的去面对人生的很多挫折。 经历了一段过去,一直以来,我都是这样认为!

People say, it’s hard to have a chance to indulge yourself once in your life, then let me indulge my feelings this once, not caring about the result. After you have truly loved, you can now face many setbacks in your life calmly. With my past experience, I have always felt so.

 


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回复 Judyy 2010-10-25 14:55
If honesty hurts, please choose to lie; if lies hurt, please choose silence; if silence hurts, please choose to stay away. If love hurts, please do not come near
回复 Judyy 2010-10-25 14:56
If you no longer love someone, just let it go, so you give someone else a chance to love her. If the one you love left you, please set yourself free so you can have the opportunity to love someone else
回复 起立 2010-10-30 19:46
“After you have truly loved, you can now face many setbacks in your life calmly. ” Everything&everyone appeared, is existing or will take part in your life means something. Experiences accumulated to the life you are having now.
回复 thriller 2010-11-12 02:56
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