不要斤斤计较琐碎小事,放大生活的意义
114-----My country, right or wrong
I am absolutely loyal to my country whether or not I agree with its policy in a certain area.
无论好坏,这都是我的祖国
115------There are two sides to everything
Never assume that all the blame for a conflict lies on one side, especially if you have heard only one side of the story.
万事皆有两面性
116-----Forgive and forget
Conflicts should be resolved and ended, not left alone to cause years of regret, bitterness and pain.
宽恕别人就是宽恕自己
117------Business and pleasure don't mix
When you work, work. When you play, play. It is inefficient and therefore unwise to try to mix the two.
劳时劳,逸时逸
118-----Let a sleeping dog lie
Do not meddle in something that will cause you no trouble if you leave it alone. If you wake up the "dog," it may bite you.
不要惹是生非
119------No man can serve two masters
Divided loyalty will break down sooner or later.
一仆不能忠于二主
120-----Make it short and sweet
Speak briefly and to the point. We don't have time for the details
请言简意赅
121-----What will be will be
Some things cannot be changed or avoided.
世事如此
122-----A friend in need is a friend indeed
My true friend is the one who show loyalty to me by helping me when I am in need.
患难时候见真情
123-----People who live in glass house should not throw stones
Do not attact anyone if you have no way to defend yourself when they attact you in the same way.
识时务者为俊杰
124-----Opposites attract
As positive and negative magnets attract each other, so people of very different types attract each other. For example, a quiet woman marries a very outgoing man. These differences have a mixed effect on the couple, partly making them interested in each other but also leading to miscommunication and conflict.
异性相吸
125-----The early bird catches the worm
Punctuality is important. If you want to succeed, arrive early, like the bird that hunts worm
早起的鸟有虫吃
126-----Blood is thicker than water
Blood relationship is stronger than voluntarily chosen friendship. Brothers will stick up for each other against their own friends if they have to. This proverb is not quoted much anymore because kinship is not as highly valued as it used to be.
血浓于水
127-----You can't teach an old dog new tricks
Once habits are learned, it is very hard to change them.
江山易改,本性难移
128-----To err is human
It is normal for humans to make mistakes and it is godly (or God-like) to forgive them.
人非圣贤,疏能无过
129-----Haste makes waste
Through acting quickly is generally a good thing, acting too quickly may cause troulbe. This proverb is used when someone has done a job carelessly and wrongly. For example, a carpenter in a hurry may cut a board too short and have to throw it away.
欲速则不达
130-----Make hay while the sun shines
If you do not seize the opportunity, rain may come and spoil the hay before you get into the barn.
机不可失,时不再来
131-----If you can't stand the heat, get out of the kitchen
Withdraw from an activity if you don't like the conflict and criticism it brings. Let other people do it without you.
懂得让贤
132-----Everyone puts their pants on one leg at a time
This is to tell us that we are all equal.
我们都是平等的凡人
133-----Life is a pie
It's dished out in large and small pieces and when's gone, it's gone. If we ask for more than our share, we're just begging to be disappointed.
知足常乐
134-----Making every minute count
Doing something productive all the time, not letting any time "slip away."
抓紧每分每秒
135-----A pen is mightier than the sword
A conflict maybe resolved more deeply and effectively by writing the truth than by resorting to violence.
笔杆子胜过剑(以德服人)
136-----A new broom sweeps clean
A new person in power will change many things and improve the situation. change is better than leaving things as they are.
新的事物总是充满活力
137-----Tomorrow is another day (or, Tomorrow is a new day.)
No matter how bad things are right now, a person may hope for better prospects in the morning. New opportunities will come.
明天的太阳照样会升起
138-----Opportunity only knocks once
Opportunity is like an unexpected stranger passing by. It knocks on someone's door. If the person fails to answer the door, opportunity goes away and knocks on someone else's door. It does not return to the same person.
机会永远是给有准备的头脑
139-----Business is business
Do business with strangers as if they were brothers and with brothers as if they were strangers.
公事公办
140-----History repeats itself
There are patterns in history. Nations rise and fall for similar reasons. Nations do not change their ways or learn from the mistakes of others. They repeat them.
历史值得尊敬
141-----People are people
Their human nature is predictable. They respond to stimulus and incentives.
人非圣贤
142-----Keep your friends close, keep your enemies closer
A man without enemy is a man without quality. Think not? Even Jesus Christ had many, many enemies.
让你的朋友亲近你,让你的敌人更近
143-----Better late than never
Though being on time is better than being late, doing something late is better than giving up or doing nothing.
晚做总比不做好
144-----Punish one, teach a hundred
People problems sometimes must be dealt with harshly. When you make an example of someone, make sure that everyone knows what the lesson is.
杀一儆百
145-----Attitude is everything
A pessimist sees a glass half-empty, An optimist sees it half-full.
态度决定一切
146-----Like father, like son
A son will be like his father. This may be quoted whenever the son has done something that reminds people of the father. Whether it is good or bad.
有其父必有其子
147-----When the cat's away the mice will play
People will take advantage of a situation if they can. Employees will get lazy if the supervisor is not keeping an eye on them. A teenage son or daughter might hold a wild party at home during a weekend when the parents have gone out of town.
山中无老虎,猴子称大王
148-----Praise when praise is due (sometimes even when it isn't)
Do not criticise beyond necessity and seldom in public. And always precede criticism with a few words of praise.
不要吝啬给予表扬
149-----Turnabout is fair play
If a person is taking advantage of someone else, the situation may change. The one on top may end up on the bottom. Then the one who has turned the tables will say, "I am only doing to you what you did to me.
风水轮流转
150-----Here today, gone tomorrow
Things may change quickly. This is said as a criticism of a person who changes quickly for no good reason. It may also be said of a thing or situation which does not last. Change is not good when it indicates unreliability.
今天不只明天事
151-----Will wonders never cease?
Said when someone has done something untypical of him or her and much better than was expected. It may also be used of a technological breakthrough.
奇迹永无止境吗?
152-----Do not stand out, fit in
make no long-term, close friendships with any colleague., but be cordial to all. 不要置身事外
153-----There is no morality in struggles for power
In struggles for power, your judgements should be based entirely on self-interest and finding as direct and economical a route to your goal as possible.
争取权力时不讲善心
154-----Natural law is blind
Just like water, cleaness and refreshes without any distinction, and without any judgement either.
大自然没有条条框框
155-----The more things change, the more they stay the same
Said when an apparent change is only superficial.
万变不离其中
156-----Happiness is a choice and misery is optional
The way we choose to see the world creates the world we see.
快乐和悲伤都是一种选择
157-----The leopard cannot change his spots
Some people are not willing or able to change their chartacter. This is said when a notoriously bad person tries to change but fails into the same mistake all over again.
江山易改,本性难移
158-----Man proposes, God disposes
Human beings make their plans but God determines whether they succeed or not.
谋事在人,成事在天
159-----A live dog is better than a dead lion
It may be better to run away like a scared dog with its tail between its legs than to stand and fight to the death like a courageous lion.
至少还活着
160-----It's a woman's prerogative to change her mind
Since women are often considered more emotional and less logical than men, and since emotions are more changeable than reasons, women are allowed to change their minds.
女人善变
161-----Spare the rod and spoil the child
An undisciplined child will turn out to be a rotten person. Many parents think that any physical punishment of children is abusive, while many others think that without it, children grow up to be morally retarded.
棒棍之下出孝子
162-----Sticks and stones may break my bones but words will never hurt me
A taunt used by people claiming that an insult did not affect them.
任何辱骂都无法伤害我
163-----The worm turns
Everything chnages. Do not expect situations or people to stay the same for very long.
万物都在改变着
164-----You are what you eat
A nation's diet can be more revealing than it's art or literature.
165-----Marriages are made in heaven
God is the source of human love and the one who destines two individuals to be married. This proverb is going out of fashion since it goes against individual freedom.
166-----If you scratch my back, I'll scratch yours
If you do something good for me, I should do something good for you.
以其之道还之彼身
167-----Office politics are secret and dirty and there is never an end to it
To survive, be patient--watch, listen and say little; to win, be patient--survive, plan and then strike swiftly.
办公室的钩心斗角永不停歇,少说话,多做事,静观其变为上策
168-----Work smarter, not harder
Get others to do as much as they can for you.
做事用巧劲不要用蛮力
169-----Time heals all wounds
The damage done by a conflict is like a wound that will heal naturally over time if it is not re-injured.
时间可以治愈一切痛苦
170-----No news is good news
If a friend is travelling and one does not hear from him/her, one may assume that everything is going well. As another proverb says, Bad news travels fast.
坏事传千里
171-----Time marches on
Time is marching to its own drumbeat. It does not slow down or stop for anyone.
时不待人
172-----Keeping up with Joneses
This means buying things that you see your neighbors buying. That way you look like just as much a success as they do.
173-----A man may work from sun to sun, but woman's work is never done
Men may have to work long days but they can go home to rest in the evening. Women can never get away from what used to be called "women's work," such as cooking and cleaning.
男人终有休息时,女人却要一直操劳下去
174-----The sooner the better
A wish for quick action or quick change. Once a decision has been made, there is no point in waiting to carry it out.
满工出细活
175-----A good captain goes down with his ship
The captain remains on board his ship even when all hope to save it is lost.
好船长宣言:船在人在 船亡人亡
176-----Every cloud has a silver lining
Even bad situations will contain something good if we look for it. Clouds are considered symbols of undersirable things. The bright edge of a dark clouds is like something good that can cheer us up.
每朵乌云都有银环环绕(当上帝为你关上门,一定会为你开扇窗)
177-----The exception proves the rule
Though we are making an exception and breaking the rule in this one case, we do it only becasue the circumstances are so unusual.
万事总有例外
178-----Shop till you drop
Shopping is a form of considering options. People think this is fun so they keep doing it untill they are worn out.
179-----The devil can quote scripture
A quotation from an authoritative book or person cannot always be trusted. The quote may be distorted or incorrectly applied.
魔鬼也会撰写经
180-----Hindsight is always 20/20
Looking back on the past, it is easy for anyone to see what should have been done even though it was impossible for anyone to see it at the time. ("20/20 vision" is an eye doctor's term for eyes that see perfectly.)
后见之明总是对的
181-----The good die young
Life is not always fair. Some very fine people die at a young age though it seems they were so good they deserved to live longer.
英年早逝
182-----Power corrupts
When people are put into positions of power, they gradually forget what life is like for ordinary people. They become more likely to abuse their power, perhaps without even realizing it.
权力导致腐败
183-----Half a loaf is better than no bread at all
Sometimes we will not be able to get all we want or hope for. As such times of only partial success, we should look on bright side and be glad for what we got.
有,总比没好
184-----A house divided against itself cannot stand
Unity is the strength that preserves a family or a nation.
185-----Easy said than done
We promise according to our hope but we perform according to our fear.
说来简单做来难
186-----A dog is a man's best friend
Dogs are know for their loyalty. Their friendship is more reliable than the friendship of people.
狗是人类的朋友
187-----Practice makes perfect
Effort brings improvement and success.
熟能生巧
188-----Where there is a will, there's a way
Any problem can be solved if one is determined enough.
有智者,事尽成
189-----He who laughs last, laughs best
If a person does wrong to someone and laughs at him or her, the victim will look for a way to get revenge. When revenge is taken, the victim gets the last laugh, defeating the other person.
谁笑到最后,谁笑得最好
190-----It takes two to make a quarrel
Avoid a fight if you can. An insult does not become a fight unless it is answered by an insult.
一张嘴是吵不起来的(多一事不如少一事)
191-----Let bygones be bygones
Do not bring up an old problem. Pretent it never happened.
191-----Let bygones be bygones
Do not bring up an old problem. Pretent it never happened.
事情过去了就让它过去吧
192-----Two wrongs don't make a right
If someone does a wrong to you, react with justice, not by doing something vicious. (He did wrong to you, but you do right in response.
以德报怨
193-----Crime does not pay
Though crime appears to have benefits, this is an illusion. for example, shoplifting seems like an easy way to get things one wants, but crime always puts the criminal in danger of punishment.
犯罪不会有好下场
194-----So far so good
Said by or to someone who is carrying out a plan taking one step at a time. Confidence increases with each step.
截至目前,一切尚可
195-----Two is company and three is a crowd
This may be used when two people are talking and a third, unwanted person approaches.
两个和尚抬水吃,三个和尚没水吃
196-----Innocent untill proven guilty
In a court of law, the accused person is presumed innocent at the start. The burden of proof always rests on the accuser, not the accused. The jury will not convict the person unless the proof is clear.
197-----The devil made me do it
I am not to blame for what I did. I could not help it. Some power outside of me was forcing me to act in that way. This is playfully used as an excuse by people who know they have done something wrong but want to avoid the penalty.
鬼使神差
198-----Home is where the heart is
Home is wherever ones loved ones are. The size or appearance of a house does not make it a home or keep it from being a home.
家之所在,心之所在
199-----Time and tide wait for no man
When something's time has come, it will happen and nothing can stop it. It is like an ocean tide coming in to the shore.
时不待人
200-----Home, sweet home
This phrase reminds people of the ideal home--It should be a place of warmth, love and joy.
.家-温暖的地方